Sharing is a complex skill for our Lil’s because developmentally, they are incredibly egocentric. Plus it is a very grey topic as they are expected to share some things but not all things. So because this is a complex topic, I HIGHLY suggest you read books to them about sharing as this will help them understand this complex topic. Books are a great way for children to explore new topics as it is a way for them to learn about a character’s feelings and to find solutions to common problems.
With that said here are 5 books I love about sharing, plus a bonus book because I was so torn over choosing 5.
Lil’ Explorers Focus Skills
Peer Interactions
- Ask to play with another child or group of children
- Share with or help another child
- Engage in group activities with minimal adult assistance
Lil’ Creators Focus Skills
Peer Interactions
- Ask to play with another child or group of children
- Share with or help another child
- Engage in group activities
Groovy Joe Ice Cream and Dinosaurs
Not Fair, Won't Share
How Do Dinosaurs Play with Their Friends?
You Are Not My Friend, But I Miss You
This is a sweet book that is easy to read. It perfectly depicts how many 4-5 year olds act in regards to sharing and thus is a wonderful way to show them that sharing toys and playing together is actually more fun than having a toy all to yourself.
One Big Pair Of Underwear
BONUS BOOK! Llama Llama Time to Share
Now here is why I decided this book SHOULD be included, the Mama llama did not require Llama Llama to share his lovie, instead she required him to put it away until he felt he could share it. This is the PERFECT opportunity to show your Lil’ that if they have a special toy that they do not want to share with a friend, then that special toy stays put away while your Lil’ is with their friend.
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